How active should a woman be in pursuing a relationship?
This is an interesting question, and very subjective. God did create men as initiators and women as receptors in a physical/sexual sense, but I'm not sure if this "proves" that men are to exclusively initiate in all areas of life between men and women. My personal opinion is that I have no problem with a girl initiating friendship with a guy. We need friends in our lives and it doesn't seem to matter who makes that first move. I do, however, have a personal opinion about girls initiating "dating" (or serious) relationships. I believe this form of aggression only serves to solidify what I see as the greatest detriment to the 21st century male Christian: passivity.
Christian men have increasingly become more passive (in all areas) over the past 50 years. Let me ask you this, ladies: Do you want to pursue a relationship where you end up marrying a passive, irresponsible man? There is your answer. This may seem like making a big deal out of something that seems pretty small, but you would be surprised how many men will pass off their God-given responsibilities as a man to any women who shows the initiative to take it over.
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